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Why Yor Smartest HR Arguments Still Don’t Land

Uncategorized Nov 23, 2025

Why your smartest HR arguments still don’t land in the AI era

HR shows up with the perfect plan. The analysis is sharp. The logic is airtight. And the business still doesn’t move.

Seth Godin is right. Persuasion is rarely about logic. Inside companies, I see this play out daily with even the strongest CHROs. They spot risks earlier, connect dots faster, and understand talent implications long before anyone else feels the impact.

That’s the curse of genius at work. You see the future before others catch on. The problem is that the people you are trying to influence are standing in a different place.

This is why your smartest arguments still don’t land. And in the AI era, the gap is widening.

Below is the question, answer, evidence breakdown to help readers move from frustration to influence.

 


Question 1. Why does HR bring a smart, well reasoned plan and still hit resistance?

Answer

Because the business is operating inside a different worldview. What feels urgent and obvious to HR does not feel urgent or obvious to them.

Evidence

CHROs in my Mastermind say the same thing in different ways:

  • “I can see the risk coming, but no one else reacts until it is too late.”

  • “I lay out the logic, and they still pass.”

  • “It is like I am talking about tomorrow and they are still inside yesterday.”

You can have the best logic in the world. It will not land if it does not match the story leaders are living inside.


Question 2. What changes about influence in the AI era?

Answer

Speed reshapes priorities. Leaders feel new pressure. They judge ideas by how fast those ideas protect the business or accelerate outcomes.

Evidence

Executives are being measured against AI driven competitors who move faster and cheaper. Their concerns shift toward:

  • Throughput

  • Cost pressure

  • Automation

  • Skill gaps

  • Protecting margin

  • Keeping pace with change

If HR arguments stay anchored in talent philosophy while the business is thinking in terms of speed and survival, the conversation never connects.

In this environment, the smartest HR point wins nothing if it does not solve the pressure they feel.


Question 3. If logic is not enough, what actually persuades decision makers?

Answer

They move when they feel understood, protected, and in control of the story.

Evidence

Inside Mastermind groups, the CHROs who influence well do four specific things.

  1. Start inside their worldview
    They learn what the business is scared of, what they are chasing, and what they are being measured on. People listen when they feel seen.

  2. Show how your idea protects what they care about
    When leaders see the risk you are removing or the speed you are creating, they lean in.

  3. Create healthy tension
    Not pressure. Tension. The moment someone says, “I can’t stay where I am,” your idea starts to move.

  4. Make the change feel like their choice
    Influence works when the new story feels like their upgrade, not your correction.

When you do this, logic finally has somewhere to land.


Question 4. How does this help HR teams who struggle to influence executives?

Answer

Influence becomes easier when HR learns to shift stories instead of defending logic.

Evidence

I have watched HR teams transform the way they work once they learn how to:

  • Frame ideas through business pressure instead of HR language

  • Tie talent decisions to system speed

  • Speak in simple models leaders can follow

  • Spark tension between the current path and the smarter future path

  • Shape the narrative so the business feels ownership

The curse of genius turns into a superpower when the story shifts.


Question 5. What should a CHRO do next if they want to build this capability across their team?

Answer

They have to lead by example by leveraging a peer group where they can practice and sharpen these skills. Influence does not grow in isolation.

Evidence

Inside CHRO Mastermind Groups, members get:

  • Coaching from peers who have lived the same resistance

  • Real examples of how others shifted the story

  • Feedback on high stakes conversations

  • New models that elevate HR from reactive to strategic

  • Support that protects their time and sharpens their thinking

When CHROs learns to influence inside this AI driven environment, everything changes. Partnerships open up. Resistance drops. Smart ideas finally get the traction they deserve.

If you want your team influencing the business with more ease and less friction, the CHRO Mastermind Groups are built for that shift with you first.

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